5 of My Favorite Healing Crystals

crystals healing metaphysical Dec 21, 2022

Crystals were my gateway drug into the world of wellness. I’ll never forget the moment it happened: I was fresh out of my first breakup in 2014, doom-scrolling through Instagram, when I stopped on a picture of a beautiful Amethyst crystal. I knew enough about birthstones (okay, fine, astrology was my OG gateway drug) to know recognize it, but I didn’t know the mystical powers and properties it held - I simply felt pulled. Noticing that a crystal shop was tagged in the image, I typed the name into google and found it was a short twelve-minute drive from my studio apartment downtown LA.


In an otherwise run-down neighborhood, this shop stood mysteriously on a residential street in an all-black victorian-style house. I was allured. Entering through the wrought-iron-barred door, I was greeted by a hipster-looking man who stood at a neo-classical mirrored table towards the back. I smiled, he smiled and I began my exploration through the beds of glittering crystals of all shapes, styles and colors. I picked up a chunk of golden pyrite the side of my fist, a rose quartz the size of my palm and a small clear quartz. There were other crystals, more iridescent, more beautiful, more unique - but these… I couldn’t put them down.


I placed them lightly on the fragile table where the man stood. He gazed at the crystals like they were eyes of loved ones and asked, “are you going through a breakup?”


“Can you tell?” I nearly spat in shock and embarrassment.


“No,” He replied, “These are just the perfect crystals. I figured you knew.”


“No…” I trailed off feeling pretty astounded.


“Here,” He said as he loaded a pink candle and a bundle of dried sage into my bag, “These will help. Burn the sage sparingly to smoke-cleanse the energy out of your life and space and light this candle in a safe place to let burn for seven days. Don’t blow it out. It’s a ritual candle and it’s made for self-love.”


Still floored by the accuracy and generosity, I went home and did what the man told me, my crystals lain across my small glass coffee table. Each day, I set my intentions with them, charged them in the moonlight and treated them like little pets. I had nothing to lose.


Diving head-first into a book on crystals, I discovered some miraculous finds: clear quartz is a powerful energy transmitter used in all sorts of technology including cell phones today. Rose quartz is believed to be for magnifying and healing the heart for love and self-love. Pyrite is a master grounder and confidence activator. All of which were things I specifically needed at that time.


By the end of the seven days, I had shed something. I was lighter. I felt more empowered, more aligned. Placebo? I didn’t care. Results were results. So even if they were just a little reminder of the healing I desired and nothing more, my brain was tricked into the work. I felt better.


I’ve been asked my favorite crystals many times, so of course I’ll share, but ultimately, the most important thing is that the crystal speaks to you. Go to a shop, get your hands, eyes and heart involved and feel into the medicine you need. It’s a practice of intuition and self-trust, but this is the true way to your own self-healing. You know what you need.


My Favorite Crystals:

  1. Clear Quartz: known to be a powerful magnifier and energy transmitter. This clean slate can be charged up with whatever intention you so desire and help to amplify the properties of any other crystals around it. I love this crystal for its clarity and adaptability.
  2. Rose Quartz: this pink crystal is the heart of all crystals. It’s known to help us find true self-love, love for others and ultimately, align us for romantic love as well. It’s gentle, beautiful and loving.
  3. Pyrite: AKA fool’s gold is a unique mix of energizing and grounding. It’s meant to help us center and expand, pulling abundance and power into our lives. Root and radiate.
  4. Carnelian: this crystal looks like blood, womb, raw human flesh. Associated with the sacral creativity and sensuality center of the body, to me, it’s life-giving. It’s primal and un-inhibiting.
  5. Amethyst: this purple classic is one of the most commonly seen crystals. Its mainstream hype is worth it: it’s the third eye’s best friend, aligning you with intuition and your own inner wisdom. Need guidance? This stone reminds you to come back and listen to yourself. 


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